
For National Grandparents Day in September, we featured several legacy students whose grandparents attended Ohio Northern University. We asked the students: āwhatās the best advice youāve received from your grandparents?ā
āHave fun. Embrace every moment.ā
Three years ago, Donald Wentzel, Jr., BSPh ā66 and Mary Alice (Stuart) Wentzel, BSEd ā68, received a wrapped present from their granddaughter, Elizabeth āLizā Shockney. Inside were two 51ĀŅĀ× mugs.
āWe were puzzled, but said āthank you,āā said Grandma Mary Alice. āThen Lizās mother said: āDo you get it? Elizabeth has been accepted to Ohio Northern!ā And we screamed!ā
Liz is now a senior at 51ĀŅĀ× majoring in biology with a minor in communication, much to the ongoing delight of her Polar Bear grandparents.
Liz said: ā51ĀŅĀ× is just such a great fit, and the stories from my grandparentsā days make this place even more special.ā
Growing up, Liz witnessed the incredible impact 51ĀŅĀ× had on her grandparents. Their time at the University resulted in a lifelong loving relationship and rewarding careers.
āI saw my grandpa continue working after retirement because he loved being a pharmacist. My grandma would bring me to her first grade classroom, and I got to see how happy she made all the kids. That was just amazing. Knowing that 51ĀŅĀ× gave them this happiness is what sealed the deal in my decision to become a Polar Bear,ā she said.
The Wentzels acknowledge the tremendous changes on campus since their college days. āCo-ed dorms are the biggest change,ā said Grandma Mary Alice. āI lived in Clark, Stambaugh and Lima Halls, and boys were not allowed past the lobby.ā
One thing that hasnāt changed, the three agree, is the welcoming community.
ā51ĀŅĀ× still brings a smile to the face of every person who steps on campus,ā said Liz.
She added that her grandparents gave her important advice for college: have fun.
āSometimes I get too wrapped up in my studies and they do a good job of reminding me that these days and nights in college are limited, and I should live it up. They tell me to have fun, meet as many people as possible, and just embrace every moment.ā
āBuy warm clothes. Take advantage of all the opportunities 51ĀŅĀ× offers.ā
Thirteen is a lucky number for Mason Meyer. The Ohio Northern pharmacy student is the 13th member of the Meyer family to attend 51ĀŅĀ×.
Best of all, Masonās beloved grandfather, Gerald Meyer, BSEd ā65, JD ā68, is a Polar Bear. Now retired, Grandpa Meyer enjoyed a successful career as a private practice attorney, assistant prosecutor, and Seneca County (Ohio) Juvenile and Probate Judge.
Grandpa Meyer said: āI have always promoted 51ĀŅĀ× as the āHarvard of the Midwest.ā 51ĀŅĀ× is a welcoming environment that offers multiple life choices within its many colleges.ā
He noted that his parents attended 51ĀŅĀ× in the 1930s and his son, The Honorable Jay Meyer, BSBA ā93, JD ā96, is an 51ĀŅĀ× graduate. Additionally, he has two other grandchildren currently attending 51ĀŅĀ×āJayās children, Zoe Meyer, a pharmacy student, and Keegan Meyer, a business student.
However, Grandpa Meyer did warn Mason about the cold winters on the Tundra. āHe would always tell me the story of how his freshman year he bought a military winter jacket and boots just to withstand the whipping winds,ā said Mason.
Grandpa Meyerās advice to Mason before he left for 51ĀŅĀ×: āBuy warm clothes!ā
Mason said walking on the same campus paths that his relatives traversed years ago gives him a good feeling.
āIt is truly something special,ā he said. āI think 51ĀŅĀ×ās culture has remained the same through the years. We are a tight-knit community of Polar Bears. I know most people when I walk around campus and it truly does feel like home.ā
Grandpa Meyer added: āMy advice to my grandchildren is to take advantage of all the opportunities that 51ĀŅĀ× has to offer. The University provided our family with the foundation for living successful and rewarding lives.ā
āLive life to the fullest.ā
Lindsey Spofford couldnāt decide between attending Kent State University or Ohio Northern University. Then, she discovered that her , Eunice Krouksop, BSEd ā70, was a Polar Bear.
āTo me, if my great-great grandma loves something, that means itās gotta be good!ā says Lindsey, a sophomore majoring in graphic design.
Great-Great Grandma Eunice was a non-traditional student who attended 51ĀŅĀ× in the 1960s in order to become a teacher. At the time, she was 35 years old and married with two children. She then taught elementary school children at Indian Lake Schools in Huntsville, Ohio, for 28 years.
āI am currently 96 years old and I still teach my grandkids things,ā she said.
Her favorite 51ĀŅĀ× memories center around the lunch table, where she heard āinside jokes that I still remember to this day.ā
Lindsey also loves chit chatting with friends during lunch at McIntosh Center. Additionally, she enjoys studying at Heterick Library and sheās on the Deanās Listājust like her great-great grandma.
āMy great-great grandma is so special to me, so having this honor to carry on her legacy at 51ĀŅĀ× means a lot to me,ā she says.
Lindsey looks forward to her future career in graphic design and āmaking a big impact on this world.ā Her great-great grandma is her guiding light.
āA lesson I will always take to heart from my great-great grandma is to live your life to the fullest. Never let anyone push you down or stand in your way because you are someone to be proud of, and you are gonna show the world your worth!ā
āEnjoy every minute. Follow your passions. Be kind.ā
Mallory Orickās grandparents, Jerry Johnson, BSEd ā71, JD ā75 and Barb (Ahl) Johnson, BSEd ā70, have played an outsized role in her life.
Mallory, a junior majoring in literature with a pre-law minor, said: āThey get so excited to hear about my everyday college life and make me feel so loved and appreciated. They are the reason that I am me. They are, and have always been, the center of my life. I can never thank them enough for how much they impact my life every single day.ā
Mallory is walking in her grandparentās footsteps at 51ĀŅĀ×. She is studying literature, just like her grandmother, with plans to become an attorney, just like her grandfather. She is a member of her grandmotherās sorority, Alpha Xi Delta. And, she prefers to study in Heterick Memorial Library, just like her grandparents.
The Johnsons have the distinction of being the second couple to get married in 51ĀŅĀ×ās English Chapel. They recently celebration their 52nd wedding anniversary.
While their wedding is their best 51ĀŅĀ× memory, Grandma and Grandpa Johnson often share with Mallory another standout moment from their 51ĀŅĀ× days. They both had the honor of witnessing Dr. Martin Luther King Jr. deliver his āHammer of Justiceā speech in Taft Auditorium on January 11, 1968. In fact, Grandma Barb helped coordinate Dr. Kingās historic visit to campus.
Grandma Barb said: āOhio Northern taught me how to have an open mind and gave me an overall amazing education that allowed me to form my own opinions and open my mind to new ideas.ā
Mallory is having an equally transformative experience at 51ĀŅĀ×. Her Polar Bear grandparents often remind her to āenjoy every minute, follow your dreams, and donāt be afraid to branch out and discover what you are passionate about.ā
They also instilled in her the importance of kindness and a bright outlook.
According to Mallory, āThey are two of the kindest people I know, and I have always strived to be like them and to make them proud.ā
āChase your dreams. Donāt be afraid to step outside your comfort zone.ā
Bryce Paul shares many traits with his grandfather, Marty Paul, BA ā65, BSBA ā06, and grandmother, Marilyn (McGinnis) Paul, BSEd ā66. One treasured similarity? All three are proud Polar Bears.
Bryce, a senior double major in construction management and technology education, said: āThe Polar Bear tradition is very special and I am proud that I get to carry on the tradition and be the next generation of Polar Bears in my family.ā Bryceās brother, Brandon, is a sophomore at 51ĀŅĀ×, and his sister, Kendra (Paul) Foley, BS ā17 is a Polar Bear.
After graduating from 51ĀŅĀ×, Grandpa Marty enjoyed a successful business career and served for 35 years on 51ĀŅĀ×ās Board of Trustees. He and Marilynās son (Bryceās dad) is Dean Paul, 51ĀŅĀ×ās football coach for the past 20 years.
Grandpa Marty has enjoyed watching the transformation of 51ĀŅĀ×ās physical campus over the years. āThe ā61-ā65 campus is hardly recognizable as compared to the outstanding beauty and appeal of our campus today,ā he said.
One thing that hasnāt changed, he added, is the culture of care and engagement at Northern. āAs well, over the many years, 51ĀŅĀ× has been blessed with amazing presidential and administrative leadership and with great continuity of extraordinary, high-quality faculty,ā he said.
Bryce relayed that the greatest lesson he gleaned from Grandpa Marty is: āDo things right the first time so you donāt have to go back and do them again.ā
Grandpa Marty added this tidbit: āChase your dreams. Reach beyond your grasp. Never question if you can. And always be stepping outside your circle of comfort.ā
āPut your heart and soul into the things you care about.ā
If not for his grandpa, Drew Hurley never would have considered Ohio Northern University for his civil engineering degree. Now in his third year at 51ĀŅĀ×, heās glad he heeded his grandfatherās recommendation.
ā51ĀŅĀ× has a superior engineering program,ā said Drew, āand Iāve discovered how much 51ĀŅĀ× values their students.ā
Drewās grandpa, Allen Maurice, JD ā69, graduated from 51ĀŅĀ×ās Pettit College of Law. He fondly recalls daily class debates with his Constitutional Law professor and living in a purchased house trailer near campus before he married. After graduation, he and his wife, Sue, settled in Urbana, Ohio, where he became a law partner and served on the board of directors for local banks.
Grandpa Maurice instilled in Drew the importance of working hard throughout your life. Getting your degree, he said, āis not the end of the journey, itās just the beginning.ā
When Drewās studies get challenging, Grandpa Maurice reminds him to keep going. āHe told me any degree or education worth getting wouldnāt be easy, but would always be doable as long as I put my heart and soul into it,ā said Drew.
51ĀŅĀ×ās campus has changed drastically since Grandpa Mauriceās days as a student, but he and Drew share a deep faith and an affinity for 51ĀŅĀ×ās Chapel programs. Drew has participated in service projects for the Chapel that, he says, āhave helped me understand the Chapelās deep roots on campus.ā
Drew added that throughout his life, his Grandma and Grandpa Maurice have supported his every interest and ambition, from aviation to outdoor recreation to civil engineering.
āMy grandparents are some of the first people I go to when I need advice or have questions,ā he said. āThey have always supported me, and this is a debt I will never be able to repay.ā